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Tuesday, May 26, 2015

When Love For Your Partner Is Fading, What Can You Do To Regain It?

In a relationship love is the ultimate feeling that binds both of you together. When love for your partner is gradually fading , It does not necessary means you do not love her, anyway. Probably the feelings you had for her may dwindled as time went on. Think about how you started and the strong love you had for each other. Could this kind of love be regarded as love at first sight? The real love does not end but actually develops in a gradual process. This could be regarded as Agape love, so when love for your spouse is fading, It may depend on many factors; some of which can be your fault or the fault your partner Love is love, and it does not really matter whether it is love at first sight or otherwise. But the real issue is that, as much as you are no longer interested in the relationship and want to quit is also another issue. But in most cases it is not easy to quit when your partner is not ready for it. And so it becomes imperative for you to rejuvenate or rekindle your love for your partner. In other to regain your love, there are many ways you can do it. Some of which are the following. Think about how you started with her, and what were the things about your partner that attract you most? You have to find out and focus on those things and encourage her to do the same. Think about the positive side of your partner and focus on that, never think about the negatives. The memories of the past must still be fresh in your mind and should reflect on what you want to do to rekindle your love However, you also have to examine yourself and identify your shortfalls in the relationship and rectify them. In this case it’s a two-way affair. Effective communication is very important in a relationship, That is, when you are not happy with her behavior or attitude towards you, you have to frankly discuses and point them out to her. I am emphasizing on her negative attitudes such rudeness, disrespectful, constant nagging and sexual laxity You also have to change your attitude towards your partner in other to win back the love that you had for her. Always get closer and never look down upon them. Remember that, they are there for you and so you have to make the relationship work. Always remember and talk about their good deeds to friends for them to appreciate. You have to brag about your partner to friends when you are discussing about them.

Tuesday, May 19, 2015

How To Get Your Husband To Do The House Chores

Angela is a high profile woman who is always busy throughout her life. In a typical day she wakes up early morning at 4.a.m and takes care of her two daughters, prepare them for school. By 5.a.m she sets off for work in other to beat the huge traffic which starts building up from six o’clock in the morning. She uses a small saloon car which , at least, reduces her struggle to board the public transport each morning By setting off at that time, she reaches her office around 7.30 a.m. after alighting her children in school before proceeding to the office. She closes from work at 5.p.m in the late afternoon rush hours, and gets to the market very quickly to buy some ingredients for cooking. If she does not get to the market on time, she might miss the fresh vegetables, fish and other ingredients which she may need to cook for her family at home. She works in the ministries and stays at Kasoa Estate, A journey of about thirty kilometers from home to work. Angela’s husband is also a busy man, He is an accountant who is working with a private organization and has the responsibly of attending to his work schedule. He leaves the home early in the morning and returns about 7.p.m after balancing up his accounts and attends to other duties in the office. “He knows I cannot cope with a dirty environment and so I will definitely clean the house “Angela said. She is not happy, she feels frustrated and tired but she does not know how to get her husband to do the housework. If she had, that would’ve been the happiest moment in her life. However if you are faced with such a situation, here are some tips you can follow to get your husband to participate in the house chores. However, to share the house chores with your husband equally, and let him do his part while you also do your part is not the best. That will mean that you are dictating the pace and setting up the task as if you are the head of the family. I quite remember when I was a kid; my mother uses to share the house chores for me and other sibling. So each morning, every child knows hi s or her duty and has to do it very quickie before setting off for school. In this case you can set the agenda and get him to accept it and help to participate in the hose work. One will ask, how are you going to set the idea or agenda and carry him along, Try to find out his schedule for the week and see if he has a period to spend at home, Based on this, you can suggest and appeal to him to participate in a specific work that you intend to do. I hope he will be reasonable enough to help. Let him choose what he is comfortable at doing to the best of his ability. You don’t have to suggest any specific task which you may want him to do.. You can allow him the free range to choose the task he is comfortable with. This will enable him to willingly accomplish it to its perfection, For example, If your husband is comfortable in cleaning the room and bathhouse, let him go ahead and do that while you also take care of washing and cooking for the family. After all cleaning of the bathhouse will not be done everyday, but once in a week. Once in a while, he may romantically join you in the kitchen to help you. Whatever effort or contribution he makes; try to reward him with a ‘thank you ‘message. This is very important in marriage. Say thank you to each other for your efforts. You have to appreciate the little effort he puts into the house work. Do not take him for granted and let the picture looks as if he is not doing anything in the house. Show some respect, suggest and appeal to him to assist you. After that you have to appreciate the little effort he puts in, to encourage him to do more. You have to discuss your idea together and allow him to contribute his mind in the discussion when he is part of the decision he will definitely be part of its implementation. When he is part of the problem, will definitely be part o the solution. You cannot all of a sudden, initiate something and expect him to willingly participate. Let him feel comfortable at home, who knows, he may take the initiative without your suggestion. Nagging brings the worst from some one, so it is not the best to keep on nagging at him if he is not willingly doing the house work. You have to take it cool and show some respect to him. If he is around, kindly invite him to join you and not impose it on him. However, it is not the responsibility of you only or your husband to keep the house clean and take care of the children. So both of you must take care of the house for marriage to work. Whenever he demands sex from you, try to be very creative and explore your sex drive outside the bedroom. This will raise his ego to do everything to make you happy. Some women always complain when their husbands demand sex from them. They complain of tiredness, not feeling fine etc; and this may drive their husbands away from them. Your cold attitude may not encourage or compel him to join you when you’re doing the house chores.

What Type Of Women Do Men Really Want

Men are very dynamic when it comes to choosing a woman as their life partner. Because of their sense of seeing is believing, many men always look out for the shinning part of a woman. Men are really attracted to the outward appearance of a woman before any other thing else. However, the outward appearance varies from the taste of every man. Some men like the “v-shape” while some prefer the “big-bomb” type of women. Some also like the slender type with a little “bombs’ at their back. Although, appearances are sometimes deceptive, men are often not guided by this thought, so they ignore the dangers ahead of them and look out for the attractive appearance of a woman when they want to make their choice In this case, men will always be selective in choosing the type of women they want to spend their life with. Apart from the outward appearance which always attracts men, it is necessary for a woman to possess very important qualities to get the right man to love her. Beauty Beauty is very important in a relationship, Some men feel boastful to be with beautiful women , but beauty is not the end of it all , The most important point is for the woman to appear very neat and sweet, Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder and beauty can be acquired from the beauty shop. So it is common to see the beautiful and attractive side of a woman when they apply creams, make-ups, stylish hairdo, and fashionable cloths, to entice men The most important point is to groom, appear very neat and sweet all the time to win the love their men. Women who want their men to love and stay with them must pay attention to their personal hygiene, neatness and grooming. They should sustain these qualities all the time, but with moderate make-ups and good body odor. Hardworking Some men want women who are working and earning some income, so that the financial burden of the family will not be the sole responsibility of one person. However, if one loses his or her job while in the relationship, the other person will have to support until things get better, Loving and caring woman Women have to love and care to win the heart of their men, A nagging wife will eventually drive away their husband from them. And nagging does not bring the best out of a person, so women have to take note of that and try to love and care for their men. You have to respect your partner to earn the same respect . It does not mean you should not disagree with your man, but unnecessary argument will not solve the issue. You only have to reason out with him and try to understand each others point. Supportive woman Supportive women stand a chance of winning the heart of their men because that’s what some men really want. You have to support your man with almost everything you have if you really love him. If you have good ideas that will advance the relationship, why not share and allow it to work.. Women who are too extravagant should be very careful because not all men like those types of women. You have to be moderate in spending as a woman, you have to be yourself and put on the best for your man to be proud of. A woman who shares her husband’s vision, Men love women who are focused and share in the dreams and vision of their husband. This implies that, a woman should understand her husband’s aims and objectives to success. She must know and understand his business ideas and assists in making such ideas to become fruitful.

Friday, May 1, 2015

Let the Seatbelt Protects you

Whenever you are on the driving seat, you always have to remember to buckle up your seatbelt, because the seatbelt will save you in case of any accident. You don’t have to procrastinate because “had I know is always at last”. It will hold you firmly on your driving seat so that you will not be thrown out of the vehicle, or hit your chest on the steering wheel. The first US patent for automobile seatbelt was issued to Edward J. Claughorn of New York on February, 10. 1885. Claghorn was granted a United State safety belt patent for tourist, described in the patent as “designed to be applied to a person and provide with hooks and other attachment for securing the person to a fixed object” After that, the Swedish inventor, Niis Bohlin also invented the three point seatbelt .not the first one, but the modern seatbelt which is now used as standard safety device in all cars. Although, I do not feel comfortable when I buckle up the seat belt while driving, but as much as I am safety conscious, I always buckle it up when I am driving. Driving without fixing your seatbelt is like going to face your opponent in war without having the arms to fight. In this case you may not be able to defend yourself when you are faced with such a situation I quite remember the day I had a serious accident but was protected by the seatbelt. I travelled to my home town, which was a distance of about 180 kilometers away from my destination; I took the public transport and sat at the front seat near the driver. It was an early morning trip, and had to go and return before noon. As I sat on the front seat, I Saw the seatbelt hanging loosely in the vehicle and so I quickly buckled it up. In about thirty minute’s time, when the vehicle was full, the drive took off on the highway. Initially, the speed was not too high but gradually, I peep on the speed meter and saw that he was driving around 100 kilometer per hour. After some times I started dosing and could not see what happened, immediately, I heard a big ‘bang’ from one of the front tires of the vehicle. The driver, who could not control his speed, quickly applied a sharp brake, and sends the vehicle into a ditch after somersaulting in the nearby bush. I later saw myself on the hospital bed, feeling severe pains on my body after recovering from unconsciousness. If I hadn’t fix the seat belt, I would have dropped dead by now and would have been thrown into the grave. So the seatbelt had actually saved my life during that brutal accident. The seatbelt is not there for fun but for a purpose and that is very clear as much as your safety is concerned. So people who are driving without fixing the seatbelt are putting themselves in a very great danger. With no seatbelt to stop the driver on the seat, the driver flies free until stopped suddenly by impact on the steering wheel or windshield etc. The stopping distance is estimated to be about one fifth of that with a seatbelt, causing the average impact force to about five times as great. So the moderate amount of stretch in a seatbelt harness can extend the stopping distance and reduce the average impact on the driver compared to a non stretching seatbelt harness