Relationship; In Love With Your Best Friend's Spouse

How will you feel when you realized that your best friend’s spouse is in love with you? That will be very difficult to disclose to your best friend for fear of a break-up in the friendship. If your friend’s spouse is admiring you and making sexual advances to entice you, it can be described as a lustful feeling and not a real love. Your friend’s spouse must be suffering from sexual lust, but that shouldn’t be your territory to flex your muzzles around. That is someone’s property, so you do not have to trespass. It is prudent for you to flee from that temptation to maintain good and healthy relationship with your friend. Most especially if you remember the thoughts and emotions you had shared with your friend, you may not like to lose them. A friend in deed is a friend when in need, but love is always blind. Sometimes people behave irrationally, for the sake of love. However, it is not bad to love, but it is bad to have an intimate sexual affair with your friend’s spouse. If that happens, the trust and respect that existed between you and your friend is eroded and replaced by hatred, suspicion and break up. You must also remember that when you throw a ball to the wall, it bounces back to you. There are many ways this temptation can be avoided. Do not visit your friend’s home during his absence. In this case always make sure to visit your friend when he invites you, and not his spouse. Remember that his spouse is not your best friend. If you want to make a phone call to your friend, always call his mobile phone and not his landline. When you are chatting with your friend, do not discuss anything about his or her spouse. Whenever such a topic comes to the fore, kindly avoid it. As much as you show interest in discussing issues concerning his spouse, this might arouse your passion to fall into temptation. Whenever your friend’s spouse invites you for a lunch, try as much as possible to dishonor that invitation with tangible and polite excuses to avoid hurting them. And if you want to honour such an invitation, kindly make a request to attend with your partner. If you don’t have a partner, your family member can be the best substitute. And you have to disclose this information to them, so that they can protect you. Remember that your friend’s spouse is more or less your friend and not your enemy. So you shouldn’t do anything to hurt them, you must be cautious and polite in dealing with them; especially when they are trying to entice you with sexual advances. The level of intimacy between you and your friend’s spouse must be casual.